Domestic Violence... Again!

The Nigerian government must take family laws serious.. These things are getting scarier everyday.. Its crazy and getting out of hand .

Another woman kills her husband in kastina State  for abandoning her and taking a new wife. She waited for them to go to sleep and then killed both her husband and his new wife in their sleep..

These women always say the same thing anytime they are being Interviewed
" After everything I have done for him,
After years of suffering with him, after wasting my time
After standing by him through thick and thing"

So it's always about commitment, the  time they invested, money they spent , quest for  reward for their loyalty, commitment, support etc to these men  etc..

I understand polygamy is not a crime in Nigeria but if a woman suffers with a man for years and in his time of boom he decides to take a new wife ,there should be  some form of settlement  for the old wife , yes the government must enforce it .. Whether the woman stays in the polygamous marriage or not there must be something for her...

A lot of divorced sisters are complaining about their ex husband's inability to keep to his end of the court judgement.. The government should take these things serious and make sure they enforce these court rulings  . if the court says you should be paying school fees after divorce then you should Honor it..

And we can't keep playing the "e no concern me" card , "I am not divorced is it's not my business"  My husband doesn't want to take another wife so I'm not bothered".  What if it's your  brother tomorrow, your son, your cousin or nephew.. It could be anybody we know and we  must not keep quiet ..

There is no excuse whatsoever for murder and no one should murder another person's child for any reason .. A report  says that  over 200 men have been killed by their  young wives from March, 2017 till March 2018. This numbers are scary and it could get worse

The government must step  in and calm this raging storm before it consumes us all...
I strongly believe that a society where there are no losers or winners in these  things will go a long way in resolving these issues.

These people no longer care about going to jail  because they have lost it all so what else. I think the government coming into these cases and taking family laws serious will do a lot.

Everybody should also take care and be responsible cos people are no longer smiling. You can't just abandon a wife of years and go take a new wife and  believe she won't do anything. You can't batter your wife everyday and believe she's helpless and so no one will come for her, that helpless woman might shock you one day.. You can't continuously cheat on a woman , rub it on her face and still expect the best from her.  Let's all be responsible please ..
Marriage is a responsibility.

Mathew Knowles Opens Up About Solange and JAY-Z's Famous Elevator Fight

Solange Knowles and JAY-Z's famous elevator fight after the 2014 Met Gala happened almost four years ago, but it's still a topic of conversation.

Mathew Knowles sat down with Wendy Williams on her daytime show on Thursday, when their conversation turned to his daughter's fight with Beyonce's husband.

"I have to tell you, I laughed so hard. If you know Solange, that’s Solange," Mathew told Wendy. "You just never know what you're gonna get."

"A firecracker," Wendy added, with Mathew laughing and replying, "I don't know where she gets that from."

"Then Beyonce would be in the corner quiet," he continued. "Just kind of like, 'When y'all finish let me know. So I just laugh."

The surveillance footage from the elevator showed Solange lunging at her brother-in-law after leaving the New York event. Last year, JAY-Z broke his silence about the incident, revealing that they had put the past behind them.

"We had one disagreement ever -- before and after we’ve been cool," JAY-Z told Rap Radar in August 2017. "She’s like my sister. I will protect her. That’s my sister, not my sister-in-law. My sister. Period."

“I fought my brothers and argued with my brothers my whole life," he continued. "It just so happens, who we are, these things go into a different space -- but it ain’t nothing."
Meanwhile, Beyonce and JAY-Z are gearing up to go on tour together again. The two have been spotted in Jamaica these past weeks shooting what looks like a music video or promotional spots for their concerts.

Why Will A Father Curse His Daughter?

 Social media went into a frenzy over the weekend in a wedding between Tboss’ father, Engineer Vincent Idowu and a younger woman whose pictures went viral.

Exchanges between Mr Idowu and a troll @Ophilia_drank who said he looked like a roasted he goat on his wedding day brought about the uproar that has since gotten everyone talking. The BBNaija ex housemate’s father also laid a curse on whoever will marry Tboss and her siblings. 

See the post:

ANTHONY JOSHUA BEATS JOSEPH PARKER IN TWELVE ROUNDS AS HE REMAINS UNBEATEN

Anthony Joshua unified the WBA, IBF and WBO world heavyweight titles as a controlled performance saw him earn a unanimous points win over Joseph Parker at a tense Principality Stadium in Cardiff.
The Briton used his left hand to telling effect throughout an intriguing affair, in which New Zealand’s Parker displayed swift hands, movement and impressive durability.

But his WBO title always looked like it would end up round Joshua’s waist as a significant points gap opened up, with the favourite landing a hard left uppercut in round eight and two stinging left hooks early in the 10th.

Parker tagged his rival to howls of concern in the 11th and he deserves immense respect for becoming the first man to take Joshua to the scorecards, which read 118-110 118-110 119-109.

Joshua raised his right hand on ring announcer Michael Buffer’s reading of the cards and he now holds three of the four recognised world titles. Parker looked to the sky.

But the New Zealander played his part in a compelling evening and brought colour to an intriguing build-up.

Never before had two world champions from the glamour division met to unify titles on British soil. For the away fighter this was a whole new level of scrutiny; for Joshua, it was a third consecutive stadium fight, with a cumulative 250,000 seats sold in the process.

Each fighter walked to the ring to an accompaniment of strobe lights, flames and fireworks, with the estimated 78,000 in attendance providing a glittering background as smart phones lit up the tiers.
When the bell rang, Parker looked sharp, flicking his left jab to keep Parker at bay and maintaining a guard with just his right hand, compared with two high hands from Joshua.

Afterwards, Joshua pointed to a bout he felt came down to “boxing finesse” and there is no doubt he used the jab and repeated left hooks tactically to stave off his opponent’s threat.

It took until the halfway stage before either man truly began to load their shots, as early respect gave way. Parker, stung early in the sixth, gave chase and landed his own left hand from a crouched position.

The beaten man admitted he lost to a “better champion” but he at least showed the “granite chin” his camp had built much of their hope on beforehand.

Unlike Joshua, Parker has never been dropped as an amateur or a professional and he showed his durability in sucking up two hard left hooks early in the 10th.
This was a more chess-like Joshua. The knockout artist Britain has grown to love was forced to show us poise over 36 minutes, though the result never really looked in doubt.

Marriage Is One of My Greatest Achievements - Adesua Etomi

 

Yesterday the BBNaija 2018 housemates were thrilled to welcome popular Nollywood actress, Adesua Etomi-Wellington. They took her on a tour of the house and later sat with her to have a talk in the lounge.

Adesua had a heart to heart talk with the housemates; she talked about her life and life with her husband, Banky W.

She also told the housemates that Big Brother Naija is a good and huge platform to start whatever they have in mind, urging them to use their stay in the House to their advantage, career-wise.

The actress further talked about her acting career and what it takes to maintain both marriage and career.

Adesua advised housemates to always be themselves because they can’t please everybody, but that they should do whatever they feel they need to do at the right time. She discussed some of her achievements with the housemates, noting that her biggest achievements are: becoming an actress, winning the African movie choice award and also marrying Banky W.

Adesua hinted about going into music this year and advised housemates to use their talents wisely.

Source; Punch

Klint DA Drunk Called Out By Side Chic

Sandra Novo Jacob took to her Facebook page to call out her baby daddy to be more responsible.  Apparently,  the issue has been a hush hush one until the side chic could not take it anymore.

Here are the screenshots she posted;

The Fraudulent Martin Luther King Award Buhari Fell For - By Farooq Kperogi

After Bill Gates' in-your-face dissing of the Buhari government, Nigerian scam artists led by Abike Dabiri got some Black American hustlers from Atlanta to pose as close relatives of the late Dr. Martin Luther King Jr and present a fraudulent "Black History Award" to Buhari.

The photos of the "award" circulated on social media a few days ago with the following cutline: "Buhari wins Black History Award. The Award was presented to him in Abuja by the Family of Martin Luther King led by Luther's Wife. Martin Luther King's Wife said PMB won this award because of America's recognition of his ANTICORRUPTION war, urging him not to be deterred." HAHAHAHA!!!

First, Coretta King, Martin Luther King's wife, died on January 30, 2006. I know Buhari gives appointments to dead people, but in America dead people don't give awards. Second, Black History is celebrated in February, not March, in America and Canada. Finally, the King family has dissociated itself from the award (see screenshot of the tweet from the King Center below). The extent  the Buhari government is prepared to go to court embarrassment and ridicule Nigeria in its bid to lie in order to conceal its crying incompetence is simply astounding.

Facebook Confirms Collection of Users' Data

On the same day that the state of Illinois sued Facebook over its alleged misuse of data that allowed Cambridge Analytica to download information on more than 50 million users, Facebook confirmed that it had been collecting and storing call logs and text message metadata for millions of Android users.

Last week, one user who downloaded his data to learn what Facebook knew about him in the aftermath of the Cambridge Analytica scandal found that the company had a record of the date, time, duration, and recipient of calls he had made from the past few years. On Saturday, the tech news site Ars Technica published an account of several others—all Android users—who found similar records.

In response, Facebook published a post Sunday denying that it ever logged call or text history without a user’s permission. But it did acknowledge that it was collecting and storing these logs, attributing it to an opt-in feature for those using Messenger or Facebook Lite on an Android device. “This helps you find and stay connected with the people you care about, and provides you with a better experience across Facebook,” the company said in the post. “People have to expressly agree to use this feature.

“We introduced this feature for Android users a couple of years ago. Contact importers are fairly common among social apps and services as a way to more easily find the people you want to connect with.”

Ars Technica refuted their claim that everyone knowingly opted in. Instead, Ars Technica’s Sean Gallagher claimed, that opt-in was the default setting and users were not separately alerted to it. Nor did Facebook ever say publicly that it was collecting that information. “Facebook says that the company keeps the data secure and does not sell it to third parties,” Gallagher wrote. “But the post doesn’t address why it would be necessary to retain not just the numbers of contacts from phone calls and SMS messages, but the date, time, and length of those calls for years.”

On Monday, in response to the Cambridge Analytica scandal, the Federal Trade Commission announced it was launching a probe into Facebook’s privacy practices.

The Table Has Finally Somersaulted.... Ndewooooooooo

They say silence is the best answer for a fool.  They also say,  if you do not clear the dirts under the rug,  it will turn back to choke you. 

THIS IS A LONG POST ALERT. 

I was raised in poverty.  My parents who are well educated,  life kept throwing lemons at them and I joined them to watch these lemons thrown at us.  My dad was a soldier and peace personnel with the Nigerian  Navy. He was never in Nigeria because they kept posting him out of the country. My dad left Nigeria at age 13 when missionaries visited Nigeria and found out he was the brightest amongst his peers.  He got his four degrees,  two masters and became a Dr.  When he got tired of working in India, he decided to return home and get married and met my mother.  

During one of the wars he never returned for some years.  We waited and waited and didn't see him.  We were told he died.  My mother who has always been a single mother became both a single mother and a potential widow.  The Nigerian Navy asked us to do a non appearance burial but she refused. Navy quarters were we lived, at the junction my mother was frying Akara(bean cakes) and fried yams. Unfortunately one night,  the navy wives came and threw her market away on the ground saying she's no longer a naval wife and she had no right using the space that belongs to those with rights. We were also asked to leave the quarters and ended up squatting with friends.  She hustled and raised money for us to move out and next thing was the MKO Abiola  riot that pushed us to the village.  I remember that day,  we sat down in a gwongwonro this tipper truck that has no coverage. She used her wrapper to cover is whenever the sun goes scorching.  We got to the village and saw another hell from her in-laws.  Different maltreatment and accusations. She had no choice than to start farming and fishing at the river Niger.  Thank God,  riot was over and we returned to Lagos and started life afresh.  She managed to start selling tomatoes and pepper at Mile2 in Lagos and also got a job as a teacher.  So she sells very early by 5.30 am,  returns and prepares for school by 7.30. She kept doing this for some years and raised enough money to start doing Okrika business.  Long story short we had no choice than to support her.  I and my elder sister started hawking.  I was hawking okrika clothes because I had sweet mouth to make you buy and my sister hawked cold kunu and zobo. 

Finally my dad returned alive only to be told that rebels held them captive for years at Sierra Leone. He met us in poverty and joined us. He was also hawking ice cream then started okaada business then entered food business. To God be the glory,  Nigerian Navy finally honoured him and he retired as a Naval Chief.  My mom exceled so well in business and became an international business tycoon. She decided to rest and opened her company which she has been growing beyond expectations for  over 15years.  

Family of five,  3 are based abroad doing well as an engineer,  a nurse and a special kids teacher. The last one,  a chartered accountant that you all know is breaking grounds.  So far,  even at my level,  I am the "poorest". 

I joined a  group called Amebo group and this group was created because people got tired of getting tagged to facebook drama.. So it was opened with the idea that instead of tagging,  just bring the drama and everyone reads,  discuss and go.  We also used it as a medium to seek advise,  to pour our mind out,  to share our daily challenges. Even some members that were job hunting came for prayers and later testimonies followed. A group where you lose your phone and we contribute to get you another. A group where members in each state visit each other and even patronise their business. We were a small family. Unfortunately we had a snitch. Unfortunately this snitch sold us out. That selling out was what made most of you angry or rather disappointed in me. This same snitch who was a close friend of mine, kept telling me some people are planning to set me up. In her words,  "they said how have you stayed this long on facebook without scandal". This is a friend that I can't count how many times I stood up for her and sacrificed alot for her.  Unknown to me she was the one setting me up.  

Now,  for 3weeks,  I had no rest. My messenger was on fire. I couldn't sleep well. I was branded a snitch and called different names which is the reason for this post.  I am calling out two people and the rest I won't mention because I can't give relevance to any jobless fellow.  

Chizoba  Miracle  Emenaha  was a member and got removed for being a snitch. She came to ask me why she was removed and I told her. Next thing she's throwing insults up and down and I ignored. One day a post was brought to the group about those calling the group names and she was part of them busy throwing insults and shades. I made a comment calling her an ingrate and a fool. Someone took my comment and showed her and guess what she did?  She made a post on her wall calling me names and said,  "is it because of 10k she gave my daughter that she's calling me an ingrate? That is why I don't like taking things from all these facebook yeyebrities". I got to the office that day and Wi-Fi was on,  I received her message requesting for my account details unknown to me that she has rubbished me on her wall.  I was surprised and I asked her why? She sent the screen grab to me and asked why I said such about her when we aren't fighting.  I explained to her why I called her those names and she didn't argue because she knew I was saying the truth.  I still went further to apologise and said I was sorry about that. I decided to check my notifications only to see her post.  I went back and laughed and said,  so after making a post you came to interview me.  Do me a favour,  go and edit the part you mentioned your daughter.  I hate involving innocent kids in adult drama. Feel free to enjoy the stage and be stupid but edit that part out because I gave that money to her from my heart. She went ahead and deleted the post instead of editing.

 

When the drama started,  I kept receiving her posts and comments and this wall gecko kept calling me an evil woman and a runs girl. She went far to mention my parents and my kids which I don't take lightly. Chizoba  comes from a  home where they're girls and her father,  a patriarchy mentality man, needed a son because to him, girls are useless "typical igbo man". He went and married her step mother and she bore his heart desires which made him abandon his daughters. This girl managed to see herself through school even though she's yet to be a confirmed graduate, before she got pregnant and had her beautiful daughter whom I have always loved.  Well,  that beautiful daughter is only beautiful to us and not her grand father.  Chizoba  kept telling whoever cared to read on her page that my parents are the ones taking care of my kids while I moved to Abuja to do runs because I heard that is where money is. I laughed. This poverty stricken wall gecko compared her miserable life to mine saying,  me that provides shelter and take care of my daughter alone. You see I find that comment insulting. My father whenever he visits the village gets mocked by his friends saying,  I have so so number of grandchildren. They brag and mock him because he can't even boast of one.  When kids finally came,  he became a proud grandfather. His joy knows no bounds. After I survived coma and moved to Lagos, my kids became their source of joy. Is it a crime to have parents that love your kids? Do you know how empty my parents house goes without them? When my kids come to spend holidays with me,  I know how my parents fall sick because of loneliness after all their biological children aren't around.  Chizoba , that you have a father that rejected you doesn't mean I have such a father. Mentioning my kids in your silly drama was the lowest thing to do. Sometimes I ask myself what I have done to you and you keep exposing yourself saying I called you an ingrate. I have even forgotten I gave that angel money if not that you mentioned it publicly. Next thing you go about lying to people that I announced giving you money.  Lmao. You See,  I am Jhoy  and last thing I will ever do is make noise about the good I do.  If you didn't talk about it no one would have known.

 Something I did last year was what you mentioned in February. You spoke about paying rent and whatever. Trust me the last thing I will do is start mentioning bills I pay. But know it that the bills and salary I pay monthly can buy you on olx and bring change. 

You went about calling me a runs girl that sleeps with all married men and I laughed. If I arrest you  and drag the case to Lagos do you know you will die? Because your managing father who rejected you won't bail you out neither can your empty account save you. Why do you enjoy telling lies? To think that you're older than me and you act like a retard baffles me. Have you used your mirror? Do you see how you look like a rejected sacrifice? You go about defaming my character just because I called you an ingrate? Really? Worst of it all is that I apologised that day. But no, you won't rest. You still went ahead telling people I opened another account begging you. LMAO.  Chizoba!  Have you seen a lion beg a wall gecko?  How does royalty stoop low to beg a slave? I kept quiet all these while because you weren't worth my noise.  But I decided to talk tonight to put you in your place and clear the air.  

I have never met you. I don't even discuss issues with you. Why you chose to tow this lane I don't know but I know for sure you're cursed by your village people. Chizoba  when someone does good to you,  no matter how people paint the person bad, because of that single kindness,  you should reserve your opinion until you hear from the person.  Between the both of us who looks more like a runs girl? You look like a retired sex worker.. Aunty gwegwegwe . 

I narrated a little about me just to tell you that I am not suffering.  I am not poor.  I am not from a poor home.  I have enough business ideas to feed me than my pussy will feed me.  I don't need to do runs to survive. According to you,  if my parents are taking care of my kids,  tell me why should I do runs?  This Abuja you people keep talking about I want to know if it is my spirit doing the runs.  I have been in Lagos working for over 6months. First time I visited Abuja was to visit my school mother. Second time was to use the airport to fly to the UK. Third time which made me based there was my Nysc.  

I don't hold any grudge against you and I don't have anything against you but please NEVER in your cursed miserable rejected life mention my kids or my parents in any of your silly posts.  Go and blame your father for not practicing gender equality just as I blame my father for not being Dangote.  Feel free to insult me.  Call me names but don't say I didn't warn you.  I don't know how to do facebook fight.  I don't have the energy for it. I do my things physical. I have hawked on the streets of Lagos reason why I'm fearless and blunt.  Respect your old age. You have sharp mouth and when I involve the police now you'll run. I am answering that runs girl with pride at least it is better than you that relocated from Lagos to Onitsha  because of  poverty.  

Whenever you see this,  feel free to print this post and use it as your CV. Count it an honour to be mentioned here.  

I have said before, whoever involves my kids in any drama should be ready to watch their kids become servants to my kids.  It is not a curse.  It is natural. You speak evil behind an innocent person, that person becomes greater than you.  

I have written the truth about your bitterness. If you like keep writing lies.  You're always fond of chasing your destiny helpers away with your bad mouth. 

I wish you well in your wig business. I'm glad you're making something out of your dried life. And you see those your friends supporting your madness,  ask them to help you with a good body cream and vitamins so you stop looking like a corpse. 

I shouldn't have gone this far but you pushed me by involving my family that can buy you and your 4th generation put together.

I am Azubuike Chinenye  and my name is light.  Without it,  you can't shine.

Azubuike Chinenye Jhoy Calls Out Amanda Chisom

In case you missed it!

Chinenye Azubuike Jhoy was accused of being the snitch in Amebo Secret Gang.  She was fingered as the one who sold the screenshots to Amanda for $100. These screenshot exposed the group as one that gossip and malign people in an evil way. 

Last night,  Jhoy was pushed to the wall to defend herself on her Facebook wall.  However,  the post was reported but some people were quick to screengrab it.  All thanks to them,  you get to read it.  For your delight people; 

MIKE ILE SPEAKS (PART 2)

Dorine Darlington The widow: 

This woman is one hell of an ingrate. Her late husband (rest in peace) will be turning in his grave today. After everything Mike did for this woman whom he has never met, she came online and joined the bandwagon to devastating effect. 

Their history:

Dorine came on Mike's wall to beg for 35k to register in a 

fashion school. A certain Progress Okuk sent 40k to Mike and He posted that 

figure on his wall. I remember clearly. He sent the money to the widow and 

she also made a post to appreciate Mike and the donor. Even though Progress 

asked for anonymity, Mike told Dorine and she sent a friend request to 

Progress. 

After That, a lot of money kept getting to Mike for Dorine. MIKE would post 

about It, even as little as 2k. When Dorine finally had her baby, Mike also 

got items from Kaduna and he sent them to the widow through Chisim Cmerije 

who had visited his Lounge then. He gave Chisim Cmerije 10k to facilitate. 

The items got to Dorine. 

Later, Dorine wanted a sewing machine. She told Mike. She said it cost 35k. 

MIKE got 40k from Olufunmilayo Odunaike and sent to Dorine. He asked her to buy the machine and send photos. She didn't do it for a long time and 

when she did, she posted photos of both the machine and receipt. MIKE 

posted. 

About a month Later, after Mike had decided to move on to other cases, 

Dorine called him up late night to ask for money. Amused, Mike explained to 

her how he operates the charity. He told her that he cannot focus on one 

person too long because there are many others waiting. So once he has 

surpassed your core needs, he moves on. His donors gave him the freedom of 

discretion on these issues. Nonetheless, as there was nothing in his 

account meant for Her, he sent her his personal money (20k). She thanked 

him and said she understood. 

Yet when some accuser of a man called Mike a charity fraud, this woman came 

out, guns blazing, to insult Mike. When some ladies called her out, she 

blocked them. Even Progress Okuk had to make a post about this issue. 

Still, people are not starting to wonder if they need to hear Mike's side 

of all allegations before they draw conclusions. It's why dude decided to 

remain silent and fight in court. 

The widow Dorine is a classic example. She once told Mike that people say 

he was the father of her son. How can someone father a child with a woman 

he has never met? So she had an idea that people can lie against a person. 

Yet she did this. May God Judge her in his own way. 

(See Chats below)

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Dorine Dollington Obi has long since tendered a public apology on her wall.  Read thus; 

Attention please ....

Last year during Mike Ile saga i made a post about him because I allowed my emotions get a better part of me, after I had things he said about me  . That was very wrong of me .

Yes, there are some things he didn't do write but It was my bad to expect him to be perfect, after all I am not 

 Moreover, his charity works got to me in a big way too. 

I am very glad today, after my attention was brought to a post about me bad mouthing him.  Thank God for today,  because it has given me the opportunity to feel free from the regrets I have been carrying for months now . 

I deleted the post I made then because I thought through it and realised I made a huge mistake involving myself . Mike Ile helped me and I shouldn't have done that. 

Though I have tried reaching him severally to say I am sorry, all to no avail

 I am saying it here today that I am deeply sorry for involving myself and ever making a post  and I pray this gets to him in good fate .

Mike Ile,  I wish you success in all you do. 

Peace.